There's far more to the magic of love than we're able to ever cover in one short article, but here's an excellent spot to start. See, we're so used to hoarding our love - locking it down; hiding it; keeping it safe - that people often end up hiding it even from ourselves. Frequently, we don't allow ourselves to even FEEL our personal love. And of course the love that originates from outside sources. Love is merely too valuable to lose. It's the motivation and the explanation for living, once you get down seriously to it. The first thing to take into account: an unlimited way to obtain love exists and is always offered to us. It's easy to express those words. It's easy to learn them, too, and nod your mind in agreement.
"Makes sense."
But it's much harder to allow it to in... to embrace it as really being true. Because once you REALLY allow it to - YOU have an unlimited way to obtain love offered to YOU - it changes everything about you. Your motivation changes. Your mindset changes. Your priorities shift. Just to call a couple of things... I'd like to exhibit you tips on how to PROVE to yourself you have an unlimited way to obtain love. That's always available. Simultaneously, you'll also be finding a little taste of the magic of love. Here's how:
Give your love away freely.
That's it. A straightforward statement that hides worlds of intricate meanings and applications and treasures and rewards and possibilities. Certainly it requires some explaining... Because lets face it. You'd have to be CRAZY to provide your love away freely! People will walk throughout you. You'll be crushed - chewed up and spit out - by an uncaring world.
Because, um, nobody's as loving as you, right?
Even when the implied argument is true: you'll be employed by others if you like freely - here's a way to side step the issue. Begin by freely loving yourself. And don't tell anybody! What does it mean to 'freely love' anyway? It means to love lacking any agenda of any kind. Loving without manipulation. Without hidden motivation. Without expectation of reciprocity. Quite simply, minus the taint.
With no *intention* of having anything in return. WITH the intention of giving love - pure and simple. "I'm going to produce an alliance with love; so I can be more. So love can be more." If you start by loving yourself - with the purest, cleanest, clearest intention you are able to muster شيخ روحاني قوي صادق, something interesting happens. You feel a tad bit more love. More love ALWAYS comes in. You quickly come against any resistance you have to love. Your blockages to feeling more love quickly come to the surface: "I can't be loved. This won't work. Blah, blah, blah..."
You can begin to have the magic of love in two ways: First, you experience on your own that the more love you freely give - even though it's to yourself - the more love that is available in to take it's place. Second, you get in touch with the blockages to feeling love. Blockages to love are basically lies you've told yourself with enough repetition and enough emotional energy that they've become hard as stone. Or iron. Or so they seem.
Whenever a blockage comes up - you may visualize it - objectify it - as a stone wall, or a piece of iron, or whatever is practical for you. Then, simply start loving that object unconditionally. By loving it you are able to commence to erode it. By loving it with clear intention, you might find IT more clearly. By loving it with pure intention, you notice it more purely. So it becomes simpler to allow it to go. It requires practice to provide love freely. Whether it's to yourself or another. Not because love is difficult, but because we've been so strongly programmed to NOT give love freely.